“Betrayal hurts, and the consequences are profound, deep and long-lasting. After His Affair is balanced with contemporary research, author insights, spiritual revelations, and messages of healing, strength, and empowerment. "
-Kassia Wosick, PhD, Sex, Love, and Fidelity
Polls show that around 85% of people believe infidelity is wrong. More than 90% of married individuals do not approve of extramarital sex, and yet almost half admit to having had an affair.
Virtually every one of us has been, or will be, in some way touched by infidelity. Why is this happening? How can we make good of these experiences? The voices of other women who have travelled this road join the authors in this unique and intimate exploration of the many faces of infidelity.
This book offers understanding and new perspectives. It is for women recovering from a current betrayal, and women carrying the remnants of past betrayals. It is for those wanting to protect their own relationships from infidelity, and those seeking to better understand and support others through this challenging time.
“A brave and searching book for the intelligent reader hungry for reflection, understanding and validation.”—Rachel Morris, psychotherapist to Cosmopolitan, UK
“After His Affair gives voice to the trauma of women struggling to survive infidelity. This brave book will help validate and support *this terribly challenging journey.”
“There are many books on how to find your ideal mate and how to help a marriage in trouble, but few address the devastation to women and children when a man is unfaithful. This is an exceptional book that I highly recommend for both women and men. Callander combines in-depth stories with good science to give readers tools to prevent an affair as well as deal with its aftermath. Psychotherapists, marriage and family counselors, and other health-care professionals will also find After His Affair an extremely valuable resource.”
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