"Only Big Deals come to therapy every week. Small deals come every other week. Or even once a month. But, the Big Deals, they have a standing weekly appointment. And it seems that not hearing what men say must be a Big Deal. At least to some people." So what do you do? If you're Susan S, you get a little help from your three best buddies, also named Susan. While your husband and teen daughter think you're just being passive-aggressive, your therapist and friends try to help you find the answer to this selective hearing.