What inspired me to write this book is not only because I'm a divorcée who made some bad decisions and mistakes in the past. I wrote this book because divorce rates are very high and so many are heartbroken that I truly believe we could have avoided it. In this book, I share some of my bad experiences and decisions that I made in the past. I also share some experiences that others have gone through. I'm convinced that we can lower the divorce rate and broken homes. I feel that being in a relationship or being married doesn't have to hurt as long as each partner does what they are supposed to do-work together as a team, be honest, and communicate with each other instead of assuming the unspoken. This book will benefit both singles and married couples. The fundamentals of this book are understanding the true meaning of love and the dos and don'ts, before or after getting into a relationship. I'm hoping this book will help single men and women who are sincerely searching for a soul mate to spend their lifetime with, rather than struggling through a hurtful marriage.